Life is…

Life is…

Life is a lone game that no one wins or loses; only you became the decision maker in it. Life is sometimes a marathon, sometimes a relay and sometimes a dash, but more so life is a sequence of having and having not; having friends, lover, soul mate and sometimes having none.

The best shadow is reflected by the darkest object. And so in life we became to dark not to let out who we are be known well and fine by people; when our shadow becomes strong we merely complain or say the light did shine on the wrong path.

But life is a lonely path, a lonely path made lonely by people we thought we had or backs on; people that we thought they would never abandon us come what may; but more a times they have been on us through thin and thick; but a race is not determined by how fast one runs but how once ends the race;

People take other people less or more of who they think and many a times are easy to shift blames or even see weakness in others but forget they got their own weakness in their own strength; rather funny but the reality of life as one old man told me is what hurts the most sometimes is our habit on others. If what we tell others not to do is reciprocated but to us…. Only you can be a living witness to the same;

There is only one person who can not abandon us in every situation; in the period I have been alive in this world, sometimes dead!! I have realized that the people we really hold dear to our hearts end up inflicting the biggest and the most painful pain deep within us; The friends we have, the girlfriend, the boyfriends, your won wife or husband make you hurt the most.

But as we all assume that there is no exit, there is exodus and the tree without fruits is cast stones; when much happens to you is the fact that you can handle much, But sometimes I wish that we people realize that life is a lonely path that we only need the strong in the heart to take the lead and stop the hurts we have all through our life.

Spend time alone and this will immensely help you realize who you are and your own potential and weakness. This does not break the relationship we have but is meant to realize that only a lit candle can lit another candle; if you know who we are then we can be help the other person became the best person in life. We can develop and understand who we are and end up lighting the others person’s life to be better.

Indeed life is a solitary walk but it takes mirror to reflect who we are and it takes a stout person to understand the fact of a lonely walk in life;